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Ya No Estoy Gordo - Molly's Story

When we last left off, Molly was weighing in at about 84 lbs and the topic of conversation for those passing by.  We splurged on some special diet doggie food, and started some (semi) regular runs with her to augment her regular pee walks...Plus, she just came back from 18 days at her doggie retreat in the mountains.  We joke that this is her version of fat camp -- there is a lot of running around the property with other dogs, and the owner also seems to be on a mission to help our little camper lose weight. 

The results?

In total, Molly has lost 6 lbs - around 7% of her body weight.  Not too shabby!  She is looking younger, in our opinion.  Like our little puppy again. 



Molly does not appreciate her weight becoming public discussion, and refused to pose for this picture

Summer is in the air...

I think I used this post to boast about our ability to successfully manage the Barcelona summer heat or something? (not sure what I was talking about, it was still JUNE at that point).  Something about it not being so bad?

Yeah, well it's BAD. 

Like, start sweating the second you leave the door bad.  Like, we are all sleeping downstairs in a pile  because there is only one air conditioner bad.  All set with summer for now.  Until things start cooling off, I have been using this little smuggled in friend as a reminder that fall is just around the corner...

Boobs and Beers in Landstuhl, Germany

As I wrote this, I was still awaiting the results from my exam...

Good news:

I passed!   

Coming Home -- Week 2 Part 2: Checking off "The List"

As stated previously, we had a USA to-do list heading in to Week 2...

1.  Go out for an American breakfast

I am a total sucker for going out to breakfast.  The whole scene is just so leisurely.  Steaming pitchers of coffee alongside the Sunday news, all accompanied by heaping plates of eggs and fried potatoes.  There's no pressure to dress up, the food is cheap, and generally it is acceptable to go home and take a nap afterwards. 

Here in Spain they don't really "do" breakfast the same way.  Breakfast for most folks here is either a couple slices of jamon y queso on a hard baguette (a bocadillo), or some kind of pastry and espresso.  They seem to be more of a lunch crowd around here, skipping breakfast altogether on the weekends and heading straight into the beer and olive part of the program.  Respectable.  But just not the same.

The morning after our big bash, we rallied the troops to head out to a new local diner close to my sister's house.  Our (available) family tends to flock together like hens when one of us is in town.  If two people are together, then the rest shall gather in the same spot.  Emily likes to refer to this as the T Family Jamberoo.  Nothing is quick or easy, and often we are making a scene because of the mass confusion that ensues. 

Breakfast that morning was classic Jamberoo.  We descended on this tiny little breakfast joint like an army about to take over a tiny village.  The door burst open and there were all 14 of us, everyone talking (yelling) over each other with kids running up and down the aisle.

"HERE'S A BOOTH!  STEPHIE!  HERE'S A BOOTH OVER HERE!  MER?! WHERE ARE YOU?!"

"CAN YOU FIT?  WHAT ABOUT THE COUNTER?  EXCUSE ME!  SIR!  (insert frantic waving) CAN WE SIT HERE?! (insert frantic pointing)"

"EVAN!  MIA!  GET BACK HERE!" (That was me)

There were a handful of local regulars sitting at the counter that stopped chewing midbite to look up from their newspapers and take in the circus that just busted in on their quiet breakfast.  The cook actually stepped back from his grill, folded his arms, and stared at us with equal parts annoyance and shock. 

After what seemed to me to be an excessive amount of time trying to figure out where to sit, we all finally found seats and settled in.  Just then, above my menu, I caught a glimpse of my mother and sister motioning to get my attention from the other side of the restaurant.

"DOES EVAN WANT TO SIT HERE?  (insert large hand gestures and waving) WE CAN GO THERE?  (I mouth the words 'he's ok') YES?  (I mouth the word no) NO? (I close my eyes and shake my head) DOES HE WANT TO?"

I noticed at this point my sister's husband was trying to discretely hide behind a fake plant in the corner of the restaurant.

Classic.

More shuffling and 10 minutes later, our poor waitress brought us our long awaited plates filled with breakfast heaven.  Evan's pancake was bigger than his entire body, and the drip coffee never tasted so good.  It wasn't pretty, but the first item was now checked off our list.

2. Grill. Often.

Not that we can't grill here in Spain, we just haven't gotten around to making the trek to Alcampo to buy one and haul it back here.  Plus, we live on the bottom floor of an apartment building with four floors of folks above us hanging their laundry over our patio.  Not sure they would particularly appreciate the smell of smoking meat saturating their newly washed clothes. 

Furthermore, Spain is not a country known for its beef.  There isn't a large selection of beef as we know it to be, and they tend to mix their ground beef with pork and sugar. Yummy, right?  This is, actually, a good thing -- it has really cut back our red meat consumption to practically zero, making room for healthier options like fish and chicken...but on this trip home, we were all about chowing some burgers and steak fresh off my brother-in-law Jason's bad-ass dueling grills. 

 

Quite possibly the best wings EVER.  Jason has a gift for grilling.

 

Mission:  accomplished.  Checked off the list.

3.  Go to the splash park

Evan loves this place, and has been asking if he can go there starting around 3 weeks before we left for the US.  Actually, as soon as the plane landed in Boston, Evan cracked open his little eyes and squeaked, "Want to go to the splash park?"  The place is a small little spray/splash park near my sister's house that has spouts of shooting water and huge buckets that dump on your head...nothing too special but Evan loves it, and for some reason has it burned in his brain as the promised land.  I think the best part of this trip to the splash park was seeing how my sister Meredith's oldest boy, Jake, took Evan under his wing...holding his hand nearly non-stop and carefully guiding him down the slide and over the handle bars.  Those two are kindred spirits I think...

4. Start a quilt with my sister

Our quilt collection has grown over the years, thanks to some incredibly talented quilters in the family including Chris's Aunt Mary and my sister Emily.  With every celebration, comes a new carefully crafted quilt, put together with love and presented with pride.

When Emily gave me my first baby quilt at "Sophie's" baby shower, I was thankful, but didn't truly grasp how important this little blanket would become. Evan sleeps with it every night, and drags it downstairs when he is extra tired in the morning and not ready to fully embrace the new day. He asks for it when he feels sick, and his body relaxes the minute it covers him. Our quilts have recently become our beach blankets, our picnic blankets, and our everyday go-to blankets when we want to feel extra taken care of.  They go well with a cup of tea, and most importantly -- they remind me of family and home.

I was thrilled to receive another beautifully crafted blanket from Emily in the months before Mia was born, and am already plotting a third child just so we can get her to cough up one more. Kidding. Sort of. 




Evan cozied up with his quilt





Picnicking on Mia's quilt

What I love most about the quilt my sister made for "Sophie", who ultimately ended up as Evan, was that it was kind of a masculine quilt...lots of plaids with primary colors and a blue back.  Somehow the quilting gods knew...

Not ready to have a baby just to get the next quilt, I decided to take matters into my own hands.  I figured I'd start with a child sized quilt to add to our collection, and go from there.  I knew we didn't have much time for us to do a full turn by turn lesson on how to start, but I figured if she could get me started with some tips and pointers, I could figure out the rest.  

Emily, excited to have a convert, whisked me to the fabric store mid-week to poke around.  Not to be corny, but I could have spent an entire afternoon there.  The possibilities are endless...rows and rows of fabrics screaming at you "I'm perfect for your living room!"  "I would make a beautiful doll dress!"  I had a blast picking out the fabrics for my "feminine vintage inspired patchwork quilt" (that is its official name). 

We spent our last night in the US with just Emily and myself in the kitchen, alternating between chatting about life and going over pointers on how to quilt.  I got all my squares cut out while Emily whizzed away on her sewing machine to create the boarder (there is a specific name for this part of the quilt, but I keep forgetting...clearly I am not hardcore yet).  With some last minute suggestions, her favorite how-to book, and the promise to skype me through any snags, Emily sent me back to Barcelona ready to tackle this first quilt.

Here are the beginning stages...

So, who knows...If I'm successful, my hope is that I can pay if forward and give someone else their own handcrafted baby quilt!

5. Make smores

Admittedly, this one was a bit rushed.  The kids happened to be overcooked hams on the verge of a meltdown on this night, but with one night left, we were determined to make it happen.  Evan, ever the cautious citizen, was careful to stay back from the fire and use sticks long enough to avoid burning his little arm hairs off.  Mia, on the other hand, true to form, was determined to climb into the fire.  We finally distracted her by just giving up the entire bag of marshmallows for her own eating pleasure.  Worked like a charm. 

 

Delicious mission accomplished. 

6. Go fishing

Sadly, we did not make it to this item on the list.  Evan DID however take a walk with Grammie, Auntie Emily, and their cousins to the gorgeous local park -- home to forest trails, duck ponds, frog ponds, and immaculately manicured gardens.  Feeding the ducks kind of counts, right?

7. Go to Six Flags

Oh YEAH.  Not initially on our list, but when we caught wind that my sister's family had season passes and were generously offering free passes for our entire family to join them -- we were in!  Grammie generously offered to watch little Mia for the day so Chris and I could indulge in some big kid fun at the park riding all the roller coasters.  Not a fan of the roller coasters, Emily happily took Evan to the kiddie section park to ride the rides then proceeded to wine and dine him on chicken and ice-cream.  Whenever we tried to call her cell to check on them, we were abruptly stopped with:

"We are riding the antique cars.  Evan is driving, can we talk later?"

"We just boarded the world's smallest helicopter, and it is about to take off.  We'll call you later." 

Clearly they were having too much fun to talk to us.

Midday, Emily took Evan back to the house for a nap and Grammie time, and rejoined the rest of us so we could all head over to the water park section of the park.  We slipped and slided until 6pm, and capped the day off with beers and pretzels.  Perfection. 

8. Order Chinese food

There is no footage from this, and I'd like to keep it that way.  Let's just say, Chinese food was eaten and it was damn good.  Check.

So there it is.  Our USA summer vacation, more or less.  Thank you again to all of our family members who welcomed us with open arms and showered us with love and hospitality.  We are so thankful to everyone, and already sad that it will be a whole year before our next trip home to see you all...We love you XOXO

Coming Home -- Week 2 Part 1: Siblings Unite

 

 

My sister Emily's house is the definition of a home.  Walking in the front door is like putting on your favorite pair of sweatpants after a long stressful day.  Instead of the standard meaningless decor found on a Pottery Barn clearance shelf, the rooms are filled mainly with family snapshots, little mementos, and keepsakes from our childhood.  The cushioned stools that line her breakfast bar facing the kitchen practically scream for you to sit down, relax, and catch up -- often while Emily is getting something in the oven or setting up a tray of veggies and dip.  There is always a Yankee Candle on the counter, and always with a corresponding seasonal lid on it.  The sofas are big and soft, and it's OK for my kids to cover the whole house with Star Wars stickers if they want to.  Her big screened in back porch encases a farmer sized family table and is lined with Christmas lights.  There are rooms with sewing materials tucked aside for a rainy day, and cork boards with inspirational phrases pinned to them. 

 

 

They are a family that waits for everyone to sit down at the table before they eat, and listens when someone talks. My niece and nephew, aged 11 and 9 respectively, played with our little toddlers for hours in a kiddie pool, and took them by the hand at the park without anyone asking them to.

 

 My nephew let Evan touch his impressive Lego city, and, as we left to say goodbye, ran up to me to ask if Evan wanted to take his extendo-claw arm toy with us on the plane... "because Evan likes it". They are just really. great. people. And I get to call them family.

 

 

 

It was a super bonus when we realized, after I introduced Chris to my family soon after we started dating, that my sister's husband and Chris had so much in common.  Needless to say, we love spending time with them, and couldn't wait to spend our last week of vacation at their home. 



 

We arrived late Saturday evening.  Their kids were already in bed, and our kids were sleeping in their car seats, so we headed straight upstairs to our room to lay Evan and Mia down for the night.  Walking in, we found a stack of fluffy white towels with assorted washcloths on the dresser, a fresh package of diapers and wipes (Seventh Generation because she knows I'm a sucker for natural baby products), and a basket next to the bed filled with toiletries like razors, bandaids, medicines, and toothbrushes.  See?  This is how my sister rolls. 

After we tucked the kids in bed, we headed out to their heavenly porch.  I was pretty happy to be where I was at that moment.  The four of us sitting in a circle on a chilly Berkshire night with the glow of the Christmas lights all around us.  Made even better by the cold beers and great conversation.  We had a bit of a USA to-do list going into this week, so we used this night to talk it out and make a plan.  Always up for a challenge, our hosts were happy to accommodate the requests (sadly, many of these included eating). 

OUR LIST:

1.  Go out to an American breakfast
2.  Grill.  Often.
3.  Start a quilt with my sister
4.  Make smores
5.  Go fishing
6.  Go to Six Flags
7.  Order Chinese food

I have a fairly large immediate family -- two sisters and one brother. My brother lives in  South Carolina, so it isn't too often that we all get together as a group, especially now that I am living abroad. However, with some careful planning, and some last minute adjustments on my brother's end, we managed to coordinate a family party with all of us while we were home in the US -- just in time for my sister's 40th birthday! 

With the family party on Monday evening, we had some prep-work ahead of us.  The first order of business -- cupcakes.  Emily insisted that the children help her...because she always knows what will put a smile on my children's faces.  She speaks kid. 

My sister has always been a baker, and as a little girl I remember dragging stools and chairs into the kitchen to watch her as she baked.  Watching her with Mia reminded me of this...she was so patient with her, insisting that Mia help even as she flung red velvet batter around her kitchen all the while smiling, snapping pictures, and encouraging her with "great job!!!"

Emily's birthday party was awesome.  As I said before, I rarely get together with my entire immediate family due to distance.  On this day, however, it was exactly what I always imagined a large family would be like.  The four of us there with our families -- cooking together, laughing together, and talking about old times as the kids played in the back yard.  Not that we are Leave it to Beaver all the time -- we are a normal family with our own squabbles and drama -- but it felt good set any differences aside and just genuinely enjoy each other's company.




Me and my two sisters -- Emily holding her "middle sister" wine :)




Mia and Grammie (my mom)

Daddy and Mia (and dinkie)




My handsome nephew...his brother is too hard to catch on film!

We were excited to meet my brother's wonderful girlfriend, Ann, at the party. 

We loved her for many reasons, but perhaps what sealed the deal with us was the fresh mint, fresh blackberry, and gin drinks she whipped up. 

You are welcome anytime, Ann :)



My brother's amazing caprese salad



Auntie Mer and Mia

 The night ended with a bonfire, more gin drinks, and hysterical fits of laughter as we tried to think of ghost stories.

  It was the kind of night that will bring a smile to my face every time I think about it....Happy Birthday Emily!  We all love you, and it is only fitting that your day of celebration would bring us all so much happiness and joy.



Coming home - Week 1: Week of Williams

 

Admittedly, I was a little nervous to come home to the US.  Aside from the obvious challenges of traveling overseas with two toddlers and jet leg to consider, I wasn't sure what it would be like to be back in the US again while following a fairly packed schedule to see everyone.  Ultimately, we decided travel back to the US was not only doable, but necessary.  Sure, it had only been six months which isn't a whole heck of a long time to be away, but I needed to see family.  I needed to remember pre-Spain life.  I needed to eat a real hamburger for god's sake.

Boy am I glad we went.  It was so...comforting.  Everything about it.  Seeing our favorite people and places, eating some great food, and spending the vast majority of the time just relaxing and laughing.  It was an easy trip, one that felt calm and relaxed from beginning to end...and though it was a challenge at times, juggling commitments and keeping the kids happy on hour 8 of a daytime flight, it was all worth it.   

Our journey home begin where we left off -- in the North Shore.  With Chris committed to work the early part of our first week home, we were based out of Lexington, which worked out nicely since we had plenty of family to visit in the area.  Our first stop was a BBQ at Chris's cousins house - filled with family and children, we were running off the high of being home again and sharing some laughs with some of our favorite people.  The children's jet lag was hugely overshadowed by the giant bouncy house and fellow little cousins to laugh, run, and play with.  It felt great.  And the burgers tasted unreal.

 

Between the jet lag, the great conversations, and my hands filled with bottomless cold Harpoon beers (thanks Billy) and amazing food (thanks Erin), I totally dropped the ball with the pictures on this night.  Often it seems the more fun I'm having, the less pictures I'm taking.  Still on the hunt for some if there are any out there...

The days that followed included lots of time with Nannie Judie, with an especially fun trip to the Topsfield wading pool for some lunch, splashing, and sun.  We spent afternoons together at the park, and enjoyed a good over-the-top American dinner at Rainforest Cafe.  After living the understated Spanish dining experience for so long, we had almost forgotten about the pomp and circumstance of these kinds of places.  The floor to ceiling fish tanks, life size gorillas, and mock-thunderstorms.  Necessary?  No.  Fun?  Definitely.  The free hurricane glass that came with the gallon sized Mai Tai also didn't hurt. 

 

Next stop was a much anticipated visit with my best friend Kerry and her family's newest addition -- precious baby Robert.  I felt lucky I was able to see him in all his newborn glory. There are few things better in life than holding a newborn baby.  

A little picnic with all four "kids"

The beautiful peanut that is baby Robert

The work week wrapped up for Chris, so down we went to Falmouth to see Chris's father and Lynne -- aka, "Granddad and Meemah". 

We love it there.  With wide open spaces to let the kids run and play, their house is the epitome of a Cape Cod retreat.  Though, I think my favorite part was watching my children explore their Granddad's room of trinkets.  Within these four walls you can see his life story unfold -- shelves filled with moments in his life, in no particular order, but obvious each object was kept and treasured for a reason.  Lining the shelves are tattered pictures, duck decoys, dusty books, stone Buddhas, brass lamps, pilot memorabilia, army mementos, and windup clocks.

 The children are drawn to this room, of course, and as they enter it seems as though they immediately sense the importance of what is held inside.  Their erratic baby steps slow down and their voices lower.  As they pick up an object carefully inspecting it, they look up with a smile and eyes sparking as if to say, "is it OK that I'm touching this?"  Granddad sat in his chair, watching his Grandchildren with smiling eyes as they ran their hands across his old guitar and inspected his collection of brass.  Occasionally he would offer up stories to accompany the trinkets they held and helped them wind the clocks and listen for the chimes.  I especially appreciated these moments, knowing how important it is for my children to connect with this very special man in their lives.   

 

Evan took a special liking to this jet, spending quite a while laying on the sun-drenched floor while he talked through flight scenarios and watched it fly through the air from below.  

The children blew bubbles, chased balls, played in puddles, and enjoyed the very simple pleasures of summer on Cape Cod.

Nighttime came along, and with it were cold local beers, steaming lobsters and clams, and fresh corn.  Joining us for this amazing feast was Chris's sister, Mandy, and her husband-- better known as Auntie Bubber and Uncle Jay.  Sharing many laughs as usual, and feeling thankful for the incredible hospitality and to be "home" again.

The next morning we set off on a full day adventure on Granddad's boat.  We cruised along the southern coast of Massachusetts, stopping to take some dingy rides, lunch, and swim.  Auntie Bubber entertained the little ones on what was a surprisingly bumpy ride home.

 

Saturday afternoon we packed up...one week behind us, another week ahead of us.  So far, we were loving it and so thankful for all the warm welcomes and amazing hospitality.